To All Undecided Pregnant People

The Only Way Out is Through: Parenting, Abortion and Adoption

You are here today because of a positive pregnancy test. You may have spent the last weeks wondering why you were extra hungry and tired, and may have explained away your sore breasts as being caused by your coming period. 

Then the period never came. 

So, you took that “piece of mind” pregnancy test expecting it to be negative or hoping to God that it was not positive. But it IS positive. 


You wanted to become pregnant, but now is not the right time, or something catastrophic happened, or the fetus has abnormalities, or pregnancy could risk your health. 

Now what? 

There are only three choices, and you must choose one. The only way out of a pregnancy is through it, whether you choose to end the pregnancy now, or birth it at the end of 9 months.

Your choices are: parenting, abortion, or adoption. 

To decide to parent is based on several factors: spiritual, economic, situational, and personal. What would it mean to parent for the next 18 years and beyond? 

This collection of thoughts are for you. The pages and short activities are meant to be thought-provoking and clarifying. There is nothing more difficult than being pregnant and not knowing if you should parent or have an abortion. 

This guide is meant to help better organize your thoughts, so you can align your heart and your mind, and make a decision that is authentic for you. 

Wishing You Clarity. 

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